Today, I had to make the incredibly difficult choice to put my 6-year-old dog to sleep, and I’m struggling with the loss and guilt. For months, he’d been suffering with painful skin lesions, and despite multiple vet visits, his health was still getting worse. The vet tried antibiotics and shampoos, but then he started losing his appetite, stopped drinking water, and could barely move. When his eyes and ears turned yellow, I rushed him back to the vet. They told me his liver was failing and his kidneys were in bad shape, possibly due to leptospirosis or even cancer, but they weren’t sure.
They suggested an emergency hospital stay with expensive treatments that came with no guarantees. After talking to my family, we decided it was too much to put him through, given how much he was already suffering. So, I made the heart-wrenching decision to let him go. Now, I can’t stop wondering if I made the right choice. Did I act too soon? Or did I spare him from more pain? Would really appreciate any thoughts from others who’ve been through this?
You made the decision out of love. He was in pain, and you saved him from more suffering. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Chen said:
So sorry for your loss. I went through something similar with my cat; I spent a lot on his treatment, but he still passed away shortly after.
Thank you… it’s been really hard. I’m also so sorry for your loss. It’s tough making these decisions.
It sounds like you made a very difficult, compassionate choice. You spared him from further suffering, and that’s an act of kindness. Take time to grieve, and know that you gave him love and peace in the end.
I’m so grateful vets offer the option to ease suffering. This wasn’t just about the money; it was about quality of life. You didn’t let him suffer, and that’s something to take comfort in. It’s okay to feel sad, and your dog is at peace now.
You did what was best for him, even though it hurts. He knew you loved him, and I’m sure he felt cared for until the end. Take comfort in that; it was a selfless choice.
I’ve been through this too. It’s heartbreaking, and the guilt is real. But at a certain point, keeping them alive might just mean more suffering. You made the humane choice, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy.
I’m very sorry for your loss. Have you ever considered holistic or integrative veterinary care? It’s been a game changer for my pets. For the future, it’s something to think about. Here’s a good resource: Holistic vs. Conventional Vet Care: What’s The Difference