So, I’ve been wondering, what’s the best way to bond with a dog that doesn’t seem to like you? Like, my neighbor’s dog always avoids me, and I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve tried being friendly, but it still seems scared or avoids eye contact. Any advice? How do you even start building trust with a dog?
Yeah, I’ve had this issue with my cousin’s dog too. First thing is to watch the body language. If the dog’s tail is tucked or it avoids eye contact, it’s probably scared. Giving it space works wonders.
@Sam
Totally agree! I also try to make sure I’m not towering over them or moving too fast. Slow and calm movements help.
@Sam
What does a tucked tail mean though? Is it always fear or something else?
Vega said:
@Sam
What does a tucked tail mean though? Is it always fear or something else?
Good question! A tucked tail usually means fear or discomfort. It’s like the dog is trying to make itself look smaller.
Vega said:
@Sam
What does a tucked tail mean though? Is it always fear or something else?
Yup, it’s one of the classic signs they’re scared or uneasy. Just give them time to get comfortable.
I’ve found that treats work like magic! Build a positive association with yourself by offering a treat when the dog seems calm.
Vesper said:
I’ve found that treats work like magic! Build a positive association with yourself by offering a treat when the dog seems calm.
Yeah, but don’t overdo it with the treats. You don’t want to end up with a dog that only likes you for food lol.
Vesper said:
I’ve found that treats work like magic! Build a positive association with yourself by offering a treat when the dog seems calm.
True, balance is key. But treats are a great icebreaker for sure!
Spending time just being around the dog helps too. You don’t have to interact constantly—just being present lets them get used to you.
Whit said:
Spending time just being around the dog helps too. You don’t have to interact constantly—just being present lets them get used to you.
That’s so true! My dog took a while to warm up to me, but once I started chilling near him without forcing interaction, he came around.
Whit said:
Spending time just being around the dog helps too. You don’t have to interact constantly—just being present lets them get used to you.
I think that works because it makes them feel like you’re part of their space without being a threat. Smart move!
Zaid said:
Honestly, it’s about committing to giving the dog a nice life. Dogs fall in love with people who treat them well over time.
Exactly. It’s not about doing one big thing but consistently showing up for them with walks, playtime, and care.
Zaid said:
Honestly, it’s about committing to giving the dog a nice life. Dogs fall in love with people who treat them well over time.
Yup, dogs are all about consistency. Be patient, and it’ll pay off!
BTW, has anyone tried walking or playing with the dog to bond? I heard that doing activities together helps a lot.
Val said:
BTW, has anyone tried walking or playing with the dog to bond? I heard that doing activities together helps a lot.
Definitely! Walks are a great way to bond, especially if the dog gets to explore new scents along the way.
Val said:
BTW, has anyone tried walking or playing with the dog to bond? I heard that doing activities together helps a lot.
Agreed. Plus, playtime is like the ultimate bonding hack. Even a simple game of fetch works wonders.