My dog is 14 years old. About 3 weeks ago, he had an attack at my uncle’s place where he was shaking and walking around mindlessly for about 30 minutes. He eventually returned to normal. However, last night it happened again, but this time for 45 minutes. He walked in circles, bumping into corners, almost as if he didn’t recognize where he was or who I was. After a while, I let him outside, but he continued to walk aimlessly. Eventually, he calmed down and went to sleep. In the morning, he was still off, so I took him to the vet. He’s now on medication, but it seems like this is only a temporary fix. His strength is weak, and he’s walking unsteadily as if his front legs can’t carry his weight. His medication has also caused him to have accidents around the house. I’m just not sure how much longer the meds will work. I feel like I should put him down soon, but I’m not sure if it’s time yet. He’s not suffering right now, but I can’t shake the feeling that it’s not going to improve. What should I do?
I think you should put him down. Letting him suffer due to your potential emotional pain is cruel. I’ve been through it, and it’s not easy. I was out sick with grief for three weeks.
Agreed. We kept our childhood dog around for too long, and I have big regrets. She passed at home whimpering, likely in pain. It stuck with me for so long, and I still feel guilty about it, even 10 years later. I think by asking this question, you already know it’s time. You’ll never feel ready, but seeing them suffer is much harder.
I know, I should, but I feel like it’s too soon. It’s only been two days since we’ve had him on meds. I’m just trying to figure out what’s best. I’m considering it over the next few weeks, but I’m not sure if I’m just not ready yet.
I was going to write ‘give the meds a shot,’ but from what you’re describing, it seems he’s really struggling. I’m sorry to hear that he’s not doing well.