My cat has been having trouble going to the bathroom lately, and since she’s really old, we think it might be kidney failure. My mom and I have been talking about putting her down, and she gave me the choice to be there with her. I’m really close with my cat, she sleeps in my bed, she cries when I’m not around, I feed her and give her lots of attention. I don’t want her to be scared when she goes, but I’m not sure if I can handle being there and watching her go. My mom told me that if I choose not to be there, she will stay with her so she isn’t alone, which makes me feel better. I didn’t expect this to be so hard, and I’m unsure about what to do. If anyone has been through something like this, I would really appreciate some advice or opinions. Thank you.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s really hard to make this decision. My advice is to be with your cat. Sounds like she really trusts you, and she’ll feel calmer if you’re with her. It’s going to be difficult, but try to be strong for her sake.
I’ve been there too, with a few pets. It’s never easy, it’s one of the toughest things you can do, but it’s also a really kind and selfless act. If you can be with her, I really encourage you to do it. She’ll feel comforted by your presence in her last moments. If you can’t, it’s okay. Your mom being there will also bring her comfort. There’s no shame in not being able to be there. If you’re unsure, you could say goodbye and then step out when it’s time. Whatever you decide, know it’s the right choice because it comes from love and care.
You should definitely be there with your cat. I’m not going to lie, it’s tough watching your furry friend pass away. I watched my childhood dog go, and I had nightmares for years after. Even though it was hard, I’m glad I was there for him.
This is such a hard situation, and I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this. Being with your cat will bring her comfort. If it’s possible, having a vet come to your home would make things easier and less stressful for both of you.
I think it’s best to be with your kitty. It will make her feel calm and help her passing be easier. I’ve been with all my cats when they passed, and I also work as a veterinary assistant and have seen many animals pass. Usually, the vet gives a mild sedative first to make her sleepy, like if she were going under surgery. She will fall asleep and not feel anything. After that, they’ll give her a painless injection, and she’ll pass peacefully. It’s quick and calm, and you might not even notice it happening. It’s not easy to say goodbye, but it will be peaceful for her, especially with you there.
It’s tough, but I did it with my dog recently. She was 13 years old.
It’s the last gift we can give them. Be with her, because you’ll regret it if you don’t.